Dear Carolyn: I recently told my partner that sex has never been as good as sex with my ex. I was angry and I wanted to cause hurt and I said it. Maybe I enjoyed saying it, too. It made me feel sexy.
But now I regret it. My partner has not enjoyed having sex with me since. We keep trying, but it always falls apart, of the assumption that, during sex, I am thinking of how I would rather be with my ex.
Is there a way to fix this? — Angela
