Dear Carolyn: My husbands family is really academic, most are in school until their late 20s at least. My husband has a bachelors degree and I have some college but never finished. His family has always been welcoming and they arent snobby or anything with the exception of Thanksgiving. My in-laws host and make a great meal. My husbands siblings are never asked to contribute because they are in finals and dont have the time or money to bring anything. We are always asked to bring a dessert or something.
My husband thinks Im overreacting and doesnt care, but for some reason this really bugs me.
How do I let it go? Or is it worth it to bring it up? Really Bugged
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